Minor Aspects: Quintile and Septile

A Septile is an aspect when two planets or objects are within approximately 51.2 degrees apart. This aspect is an example of what is considered “minor” to many Astrologers, but there is no actual evidence for this division of the circle to be any less significant than any other.

If the circle is divided by 1, we get the Conjunction aspect. When divided by 2, we get the Opposition aspect, 180 degrees. Divided by 3, the Trine, 120. Divided by 4, the Square, 90 degrees. Divided by 5, the Quintile, 72 degrees. Divided by 6, the Sextile 60 degrees. Divided by 7, the Septile, 51 degrees.

Personally, as an Astrologer, I prefer to see the bigger picture, the whole picture. And when I look at the whole circle, I see that each of these divisions are divided the same way, and should all be equally important.

In my experience and research, the reason behind the Septile and Quintile aspects being excluded as ‘major aspects’ is because they are “hardly ever felt.”

I believe this is false and my reason goes the same for many Astrologers acknowledging the importance of the Ascendant and Descendant axis, as well as the Midheaven, but MUCH less about the importance of the Imum Coeli; You can read about this in my blog “Grow Into The IC Before The MC.”

One reason it is common to believe that minor aspects such as the Quintile and Septile are hardly felt, could be the idea that there are so many people who limit their spiritual or instinctual beliefs to a certain extent. Or, perhaps there is lack of interest to look for aspects of the human life and experience beyond these five things:

• Intense magnetism between human and physical contact. (conjunction)
• Polar opposite attraction between two, or goals in life. (opposition)
• Natural flowing abilities to express without hassle; reaching the top with little effort. (trine)
• Most difficult challenges that people face in life, the world and relationships. (square)
• And things to be grateful for, things people come to appreciate when learning their value. (sextile)

I think it’s fair to say that these are very immediately important experiences in a person’s life. But I wouldn’t say it is entirely limited to these alone.

Math is a very complex subject and there is no guarantee that a person has the mental capacity to study every single division of the circle… However, I believe that is still no reason to accept the insignificance of the aspects of life that many Astrologers hesitate to get too deep into.

Personal preference is completely fine, but if you’re interested in my insight on why minor aspects are important, then stick around. 🙂

So I would like to share my experiences with the Quintile and the Septile aspects, one at a time.

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The Quintile

This is a very unique kind of energy, ruled by the number 5 in Numerology, which is the number of the whole body, the four arms and legs, and the head. This is the energy of self realization and personal power. This Quintile energy has a very dynamic force, and the intensity similar to the conjunction. The Quintile’s energy can be thought of as someone with a healthy body and systems that are intact and only perfectly aligned. And with this perfect health, the person has complete individuality to accomplish things hypothetically without any ailments.

When a person has a Quintile in their chart between two or more objects, the person will be very innovative and initiative between the two planetary energies working together. They are inventive and also healing, as their abilities tend to be used to turn something old into something new. The number 5 in Numerology is the equivalent of the perfect blend of masculine and feminine energy. So in Astrology, I would actually compare this aspect to Lilith’s energy, the need for freedom and to not submit to only one gender’s energy and to be it’s own. The 5 is although slightly more feminine than masculine, in a tomboyish way with nothing submissive about it, which is where Lilith’s archetype comes in.

So, in the Natal Chart, two planets that are in Quintile with each other, can make the person much more rebellious and innovative with these energies. These planets in aspect can also make the person have a tendency to be self-righteous and arrogant before learning to tame this “Lilithian” energy. The thing about the Quintile aspect, is that a person with one or many can be so independent and uncompromising that if not careful, they can project their energy too intensely onto other people, and can make others feel small even without intending to.

Typically this is the aspect which makes a person’s energies between planets use those energies in the most unconventional ways possible. Never put the people with several Quintiles in their chart in a box because they will not fit. Ever.

Examples:

Someone with Sun Quintile Moon would be someone with a very empathetic response to anyone they meet. This is a person whom you will almost NEVER hear them say they don’t have time for you. They have very warm smiles and tend to have something very healing about the way they smile or the way they feel when you pass them. It’s just who they are and they know that this is something that makes them amazing. This aspect makes for very VERY beautiful people who has your heart as soon as you hand it to them.

Someone with Moon Quintile Venus is also an incredibly beautiful aspect which can make a person extremely responsive towards others. These extremely generous people have an air about them that you immediately know you can trust without having to find out for yourself. The moment you make eye contact and they speak to you, you feel this amount of security that you don’t even know where it came from because they just ARE the security.

Let’s say someone’s Mercury is Quintile Uranus. These are the people who see the picture so big that they can make an entire picture seem like a mere sketch compared to their big ideas. Mercury Quintile Uranus has the ability to see the future in ways that can’t necessarily be defined because they just do it. It’s just what they do. 

Some Astrologers believe that the “minor aspects”, or aspects in general, in contact with outer planets tend to be the most dynamic and have more of an impact than those with inner planets.
Sadly, I’m going to disagree with this as well. (P.S. You’ll learn a few things about me and my chart the more I blog.) The reason I disagree is because I’ve seen them all in a wide variety of people I’ve met personally, and many famous celebrities I have studied for a while.

Perhaps it is my Mars biQuintile to Jupiter and Mercury biQuintile to my NN which is why I am choosing to see the bigger BIGGER Picture. My Jupiter is also Quintile Pluto, and Saturn Quintile Neptune and Pallas Athena. I have quite the Quintile series in my own chart, as well as Septiles, which is what we are about to get right into! 🙂

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The Septile

So, I mentioned at the very beginning of this post somewhere that the Sextile (6) is the aspect which I believe we come to learn to appreciate. It’s the aspect within us where we are creatively gifted but with time live experiences where we are taken for granted and consider throwing these abilities away, until even later in life we realize that these things in our lives are apart of us and are what make us whole and complete. When the Sextile is accepted and integrated within our psyches and souls, we then use that energy to inspire and encourage others to reach their potentials.

Now, after this amount of human compassion is discovered, the human experience is lives and all…a person then seeks to know why. This is where the Septile (7) aspect comes in. In Numerology, 7 is the number of Truth. This is the number of deep soul searching, psychic/intuitive  abilities and introspection. I like to compare the Septile’s energy to Greek Mythology Psyche’s story. The story of a woman who was so beautiful that she was cursed by Aphrodite from resentment. Psyche had done nothing deserving and her only thought could be to wonder why. Psyche was intended to be cursed to fall in love with the ugliest man alive by Eros without ever witnessing him, but he fails and she catches his gaze and they fall in love. Psych falls in love with a god of Love whom she goes to the end of the earth, sacrifices her Soul, just to be there with him.

The Septile Energy is similar to this, whereas the person with this aspect, reads between the lines and sees beneath the surface, the unseen. The person will go great lengths to acquire the Truth for which they believe and seek, with or without the faith of anyone else by their side. This energy does not take anything at face value. The symbolism behind number 7 is perfection, the colors of the rainbow. The number 7 is Neptune’s number and ruled by Cancer and Pisces. It can indicate intuition with the other realms and can tend to trigger O.B.E. experiences in people. Some people are capable of communicating with spirits or ghosts, even. Septile energy makes a person pursue things intuitively rather than logically and they tend to have insight that is inexplicably spot on.

When a person has a Septile aspect between two or more of their planets, they tend to be a very mystical and introspective person. Typically this person will be in their head, shy and introverted, but this doesn’t indicate insecurity or lack of self confidence, just mystery. The person with few or more tend to be very scientific individuals, non-conforming, and have a very intense emphasis on the importance of their individuality or authenticity. These people will freak out if they are unable to stay true to themselves. And they will do really heavy mental analysis to make sure their head and heart are on their destined path in life, accomplishing exactly what they believe they were meant to. This aspect makes for philosophical and inventive people. And especially perfectionists.

It’s kind of strange, but the people with many Septiles tend to be very intuitively powerful and inventive people, however they are the ones whom are often questioned for their intellect because they are already envisioning the future that it’s really hard to ground them. But they are indeed very intellectual, intelligent and quite ingenious. Einstein would be a perfect example. And also, it is not uncommon for people with Septiles to turn out to be on the Autism Spectrum somewhere; simply misunderstood.

Examples:

A person I actually know personally with Sun TriSeptile his Moon is one of the most….probably THE most private person I have ever met. His Moon is in Libra and his Sun in Taurus. He is so private that you’d barely know if he’s still alive but he is, and he is always around…just, silently.
This person whom is a close friend to me, is very compassionate, and intuitive. He will read people without saying a single word until needed, and he’s mostly a listener more than anything. He loves to draw and write. He draws art when he is in his own world or realm.

Generally, a person with Sun Septile Moon will immediately have the presence of someone who is private and mysterious. The will almost never let you be able to read what is truly going on with them, but they are glad to let you come to them and seek their compassion. Very nonjudgmental individuals.

Someone with Sun Septile Pluto is typically a very Scorpionic energy, but this also takes a bit of a different approach than the average Sun-Pluto person. This person will continuously seek answers from their higher self which they believe in very intensely. They tend to feel like an Alien in a world among all other species. And very likely they have a strong belief in Aliens and will probably spend much time trying to find proof.

A person with Venus Septile Mars has a very intense presence. They have a sexuality that isn’t obvious on the outside, but have a very silent, but penetrating aura. They tend to have a very high sex drive and yet, it’s something they rarely show off. However, this person instead actually just cares very much about the divine intertwining between them and others.

Psychology Astrology

I’m looking for opinipns for an idea I have. Please read all the details then tell me your opinions…

I’m thinking about creating an Astrology blog that focuses on a combination of Mundane and Spiritual astrology associated with the Psychological factors in people. By this I mean I won’t be merely describing personality traits, but rather getting to the psyche of the issues, or effects that experiences have on people. How good or bad ones create reactions that are displayed outwardly; as well as how to overcome our individual difficulties. Everyone’s psychology is different, but I can offer steps to understand your own through the aspects in your chart. Basically, this will probably turn out to be the type of Astrology that answers the questions: “What made me this way?” “Is this good for me?” “Am I staying true to myself?” “How can I make myself better?” “What should I do/analyze to understand how this can make me happier?”

So  far this is where my idea ends, but I’ll be adding more most likely. Does this seem like something appealing or useful in the long run?

Hard Aspects Working Together

Here’s an aspect, one that I struggle with the most… One that brings me some of the most of my shame.

So, in my Natal Chart, I have Pluto in Sagittarius in my 4th house, where I have Scorpio on the cusp. Among Pluto I also have Nessus, and Asteroid Kassandra to name a couple, so I’ve experienced a lot of abuse, betrayal, let downs etc….very transforming experiences that always seemed to turn my whole world upside down.

I also have Mercury in Taurus in the 9th house, which forms a Quincunx(ughhh) to my 4th Pluto. (-_-) With this I have an easier time blurting how much I hate everyone, instead of appreciating all that I have overcome. And on the other hand I have so many dreams for my future, and I have always been a child lost in my fantasy world because I was such a visionary, picturing myself 10 years later, traveling, meeting new people, learning many languages. (Oh how desperate I am to meet people and speak their language.)

But the thing is…..I usually hate everyone too much to really allow myself to vision my dreams anymore.

What to do about this? The Quincunx is very awkward and just….awkward. I hate this aspect so much. Because it’s one of those things where two things are almost nothing alike, but can offer something inspiring if they’d be willing to give each other a chance…

So, Sagittarius is a very free spirited, optimistic, no bullshit tolerance etc. That’s the nature of the generation I was born in of people closer to my age. But anyway, in my 4th house of home (and generally any time in life I allowed anyone to get close to my heart) I was always stripped from my freedom. Usually by force, I wasn’t given the opportunity to be my own person in many ways.

And this especially applies to my 9th house Mercury, which I’ll explain shortly.

The 9th house is similar to Sagittarius in that it is free spirited, has to do with our philosophies, our passion for learning new things, optimism etc. My Mercury here is in Taurus, and with Mercury in Taurus, there are a few things… Taurus is a sign ruled by Venus, it rules nature, beauty, money, personal self worth, values. Taurus also rules the throat and voice, speaking of which, I have ALWAYS had a love for singing. But there were many times in my childhood when I was told to be quiet, when I wanted to sing. Or even, when I was 4 I began to develop my musical abilities… I was natural at playing the piano at that age so my mother put me in piano lessons. I loved it for a little while….until it became a chore because it turned into homework when I wanted it to be a passion.

For my mother, I wasn’t allowed to “play” the piano, I could only “practice” or get off it. That really hurt me afyer 7 years of practicing and I eventually gave up.

The thing is, I have always been a dreamer, my Mercury in the 9th especially has always given me insight into the future, the ability to see the bigger picture, and to know exactly what my dreams are. But, my dreams have been crushed so many times in my life, on that soul level (4th house) that over time I have become bitter not only towards myself, but others also.

Thing with Mercury quincunx Pluto is that it gives not only the ability to manipulate, but a tendency as well, depending on the houses located. In my case, I can be prone to criticizing others for not being authentic, for being too influenced by others or for not having any good personal values….

But in my heart, that’s not the person I am, nor do I want to be. I actually love people very deeply and unconditionally to the fault of me giving myself too much. This could be my Pisces Moon also….which makes a Square to Pluto.

Even so, I think if I meditate on this hard enough I can come up with a solution. I’ll note a few things, however:

1. I need to stop caring what others think about my passions
2. I don’t have to wait for approval to go after my dreams
3. I should keep in mind that others have their struggles just like I do, and it’s okay to realize I’m not alone

Once I learn to use my Mercury-Pluto together in Harmony, I should be able to make many people feel loved and inspired, just as I dream of.

Sagittarius and Taurus are VERY different signs, it’s hard to even come up with the traits that bring them together, but I will try.

Both signs are in love with nature. Taurus is an Earth sign, Sag is fire, but has a strong need for adventure and travel. Taurus is lazy and comfortable laying in the grass, Sagittarius wants to go hiking and see the whole world.

While Taurus is soft spoken and gentle, Sagittarius is loud and outgoing….Hmm.

Even though they are so different, I think they can find balance (somehow).

Hard Aspects Working Together

Not sure if anyone else tries this or not but I will share my experience anyway.

Recently I’ve been really frustrated with the hard aspects in my Natal Chart that just seem impossible to cope with sometimes, impossible to make sense of or to “change” to be stronger. So my idea is to study the signs that aren’t working well together, figure out what makes them different but also how they benefit each other.

 

For example, I have Moon in Pisces in my 7th house and Mars in Virgo in the 1st forming an opposition..

Naturally, I have a strong desire for close relationships, being close to others, experiencing harmony and making others happy. But I also tend to fantasize and have a bad habit of getting lost in my own mind, thinking about things that I’d love to happen but seldomly doing anything because I just fantasize so much, and sometimes it gets me in trouble.

 

On the other hand, I’m an extremely ambitious person, I have goals, things I want to accomplish in life and I’m amazing and sticking to them to make them happen when I really put my mind to it. Even though there’s a tendency that I start many projects at a time, I am capable of following through with all of them. Even so, I have a hard time staying present and instead I just stare at the bigger picture and drool over how awesome it’d be, and then often getting depressed because I can’t always find the motivation to keep going, since at the same time I want to be with those close to me, forming more bonds with the whole, that I lose time and don’t know when to focus on my projects.

 

Pisces and Virgo are different but compatible because Pisces can help Virgo to relax and not feel so stressed out when things aren’t to it’s perfection, and to just experience the joy they have for working so diligently, and Virgo encourages Pisces that their dreams can always come to life, but can also teach them the steps to get there.

 

So I’ve been practicing working out my differences, because I have a very bad tendency to be hard on myself for not being productive, for getting too involved in my head. When that happens it’s as if I say to myself “You’re not good for anything, all you do is slow me down with my projects. You can’t keep up!”

And on the other hand I get reclusive and don’t say anything at all other than “I’m only a burden to everyone else around me…” Which is bullshit, I just need to learn to work with myself lol.

 

Instead of this, I will recognize my strengths on both ends, and also my set backs, and find ways to prevent those setbacks, for example, getting used to schedules:

My 1st Virgo Mars needs time to spend on it’s projects and ideas it comes up with, for example, when I decided to study Spanish thoroughly and daily in order to become bilingual and have more job opportunities. I could perhaps spend some time in the afternoon-evening focusing on it, and during that time not on social media talking to everyone at the same time. And for my 7th Pisces Moon, instead of spending so much time talking about things I dream of, I can actually feel more confident in myself when I spend time/talk with others about where I am in my own life. Because without this balance, my Pisces Moon will always feel inadequate and incapable, and my Virgo Mars will always feel like a failure or as if I’ll never get anywhere in life.

That is unacceptable…!

I think I will be posting more of these later. They seem to help me to write it out for whatever reason. 🙂

The 1st House In The Natal Chart

Generally it’s established that the 1st house is ruled by Aries and Mars. It is the house of the Ascendant, our immediate identity in the world, and what we want to experience. 

This house will show what drives a person to live their life. 

The sign here indicates the ideas we have that  give us motivation to move forward, to start new experimental projects, and trying new things. This shows the types of experiences that we want to have, in our own lives.

For example: Someone with Sagittarius on the Ascendant has ideas of philosophy and absorbing information, sharing knowledge and insights all around them. Travel and seeing all different aspects of life, seeing the bigger picture of what makes life, life itself.

The house of the ruling planet will tell the areas of life we express these ideas as our pursuit to our individuality of going where we want without being told by anyone else.

For example: Sagittarius Ascendant is ruled by Jupiter….if Jupiter is in the 10th house then this Ascendant would love to be in experiences where they are looked up to for their beliefs, so that others can seek some kind of guidance or teaching from them. 

It is the house where we make our own decisions about what life means to us, and what we choose to do with it. 

When there are planets in the 1st house/Ascendant house, it shows the tactics we use to initiate the types of projects we are interested in. The planets also influence the sign to make the interests in life pointed into similar areas of the ruling planet.

For example: Someone with Pluto in the first house may have this sexy, magnetic attraction about them, not only(if) because they flash their sexuality, but because they are good at bringing life experiences to them. They want what they want, and they will use their ability to seduce to be exactly where they want to be without anyone’s help. This Pluto energy makes the person intense because it is as if they can literally have life in the palm of their hands.

And if Pluto is here with Sagittarius on the Ascendant, then this would make the Sagittarius person crave experiences that are occult, that most people are afraid to tread. So let’s say Sagittarius already wants to learn everything there is to know, and if Pluto is here, then maybe they want to know more about ghostd, haunted parts of the world and they travel there to experience those haunted places. Then they can say they lived to share those experiences.

Look to aspects to the Ascendant for similar descriptions for having planets in the house itself, to understand how you go about obtaining the things you want out of life.

Look to aspects to the ruling planet to see how you are able to stay motivated to achieve your desires and to go after them, your source of motivation.

Grow Into The IC Before The MC

The IC (Imum Coeli) is the other part of the MC (Midheaven) axis, with an equal amount of importance as the top of the chart. The IC has more to do with our roots and the home we were born into, although it very much does have to do with these things; the IC is our deepest inner selves. So I will get straight to the point.

By aspiring to get in touch with our selves on the very deepest, core level of our heart and soul, then will begin the willingness to sprout and blossom into the people we aspire to be at the very top of our chart. Without the willingness to face the parts of our inner selves where we have the most fear, the most pride, the most power, then while looking ahead towards our future (MC) it can be very easy to lose sight of who we are and what it is we really truly want from life, and who we really want to be. Without getting in touch with the IC before aspiring too far ahead, we can easily set ourselves up for failure or end up in situations where we never intended, or where we put our expectations too high on the pedestal only to come crashing down in our face.

I will briefly go over each IC sign aspiring to become their best MC sign:

• Aries IC/LibraMC: You are by nature a very driven and determined person who lives by your instincts and intuition above all else. From a very young age you learned that you had no one to defend you or fight for your safety in this world, so you learned to do it on your own. You may have had very difficult relationships with your mother and father due to some type of aggressive behaviors that left you a traumatized, helpless, weary child. You realized that this lifestyle was something that you could never want to become, and around all the difficulties, you decided to man(or woman) up and stop relying on others to make you feel safe. Because if you were going to survive and do something bold in life, you had to learn to fend for yourself. This way of thinking has made you a very strong, intense and powerful individual which are your most personal strengths throughout the rest of your life. As an Aries IC you know exactly what it feels like to be left alone, to feel helpless and have no one to be there for you when you’re at your worst, or when you could use some encouragement. So as a Libra MC, you are determined to do whatever it takes to prevent others to have to experience this type of torment. If you are able to help it you are willing to put yourself in situations where you defend others. Sometimes this means one will choose to go into politics, wanting to be a lawyer, or simply a counselor for others. But this is usually a need to go bigger than one-on-one therapy. You want to encourage strength and compassion. Above anything, you don’t want anyone’s freedom or independence to be taken away unjustly, so you will fight for this for anyone you care for, and especially those who are mistreated in life, which is the mark you leave in the world.
• Taurus IC/Scorpio MC: You are by nature very mature, patient, and slow to speak waiting until you know it’s your turn. Growing up, you may have been very close to your mother. So close that you may have taken on many or some of her personal interests or pursuits she has been involved with her whole life; taking on some form of her moral beliefs. Your mother was probably strict in some areas, or perhaps very unchangeable in her beliefs. Even so, you were able to have financial security, almost never having to fear being without a home, or being without food on the table. As you were young and growing, you learned immediately the meaning of what it means to be a family, what it means to count on those related to you. Even if there may have been relatives, or even a parent who were distant and/or aggressive, you still knew how to remember and cherish the good times among the bad. In your heart you could feel frustrated with lack of family involvement, but you also stayed strong and accepted the good times as they came. Your tendency to keep your emotions to yourself made you a bit reserved and sometimes you may have wished you were able to express them more. As a Scorpio MC, you are driven to branch out this learned ability to form emotional attachments with those close to your heart, and you are inspired to use your sensual energy to draw others towards you. You want to make others drawn to you so that they can learn how to let thier guard down and to become emotionally vulnerable with you. You are often prone to having many transforming, personal and intense encounters with others, you always take all of the pleasures deep into your heart, and you leave major impacts on the people who come into your life.
• Gemini IC/Sagittarius MC: You are by nature witty and clever and probably have been the clown in your family, the one who makes everyone laugh with something unique and hilarious that you came up with yourself. You love to share your ideas and you had a way to provoke others into reacting to your humor or sarcasm, sometimes even making them want to hit you if you didn’t shut up…maybe. But still you were very active, mentally and intellectually. You relationship with your parents may have been very confusing or misleading. Maybe some days they seemed like a decent married couple, and other days they were threatening to divorce, almost never making up their minds. Or, if you were just with one parent, that parent may have made you feel ignored and not cherish your brilliant ideas as much as you would have liked. Whether this scenario is different for all of the Gemini ICs, you could have been given many broken promises. E.g. being told you’d go somewhere together, but suddenly it never happened. Disappointment. As a Sagittarius MC, you are just as intelligent and ingenious as you know you are without the need for acknowledgment. Instead of seeking that praise, you inspire others to find their own talents. To look to the things to be proud of, to never feel defeated by the worst of others when ‘you are always your best regardless of what anyone else says.’ Optimism and spiritual outlook on life becomes your mark in the world.
• Cancer IC/Capricorn MC: You are by nature very loving and tender. You are so empathetic, that any kind of harm in the world could be extremely unsettling. You are so sensitive that you never ever want anyone to feel hurt, unloved, or unincluded. Growing up you may have been very nurtured by your mother and father (or the one who raised you), and very much taken care of. Your needs may have been met, but your instincts to be your own disciplined individual may have been blinded. One or both of your parents could have always been too giving and self-sacrificing. Your mother or father may have been extremely generous people which has amplified your empathic abilities. To feel for others first is what you have always known. But when do you say “No”? Perhaps that was a lesson that was forgotten to have been taught soon enough. Through your parents being overly compassionate, you may have witnessed them being taken advantage of frequently and never speaking up about it. So now, as a Capricorn MC, as you grow into yourself you choose to use your generosity and compassion to be an authority figure in the lives of others. You want to encourage the people around you that compassion and tender hearted-ness is something the world needs more of, but to ‘never let anyone put you down, or to take advantage of you.’ You have a strong voice and a deep calling for instilling discipline in others, to make sure others know how to defend for themselves no matter what. At best your authority and compassion will leave a major impact on the people you encounter.
• Leo IC/Aquarius MC: You by nature are a very fun-loving and cheerful character. You value friendship even in familial relationships. By being playful and creative as a child you sparked joy and enthusiasm within the family. You were dramatic and often putting on a show to make them laugh. Your big heart was something that has always made you considerate. Maybe you were into arts and were born with a talent for drawing, painting, or even acting. Perhaps your relationship with your parents or family were sometimes fun and adventurous, silly and creative. But it’s also more likely that one or both of your parents made you feel like you were just too childish and even annoying. Maybe there were interests and passions you had that your family made you believe were just too eccentric and too original. And this may have created anxiety in you to express your passion and love of the arts. It may have made you want to detach from what you truly love. As an Aquarius MC, you know very much this fear of not being free to express your individuality. So you choose to never reflect that type of response onto others. In fact, the biggest way to piss you off is even to watch someone talk down to someone for simply expressing what they care about, as long as it isn’t doing harm. You are non-judgmental, open minded and independent. You want the world to know that your air of confidence of your eccentric nature is exactly what makes you stand out and different yet apart of the whole. This is how you inspire others.
• Virgo IC/Pisces MC: You by nature are sensitive, reclusive, careful and kind. In your family as you grew, you may have been very attentive to everyone around you, choosing not to have much of an opinion, as long as everyone was taken care of might have been your number one priority. Perhaps, your parents, one or the other(or both) were very ill in your life, and you ended up taking on the role of the caregiver in some way, choosing to help them run errands, do the dishes, bring them their medications, etc. Or if you had many other siblings and were the oldest, you might have taken on the responsibility of getting them to school and such places while your sick parent was home or having too many issues to perform at their best. You are a very sincere and giving person, but maybe in your home your actions were probably objectified and you may have felt unappreciated very much. Maybe you began to feel like someone’s dog but even then you were only able to remain loyal because you cared so much. As a Pisces MC, while you grow into yourself, at your best you learn that it’s okay to not tend to everyone’s needs, and to just be kind. Because not everything you do will be appreciated and you beileve that you should have no responsibility for what they are struggling with on the physical plane. You encourage compassion, sincerity and love. You you be very sacrifing and willing to be helpful when you’re able to, but whenever you’re able to you may try to avoid it. You are one of the most sincere and compassionate people who impact the lives of others, and you present yourself this way. Silly and a bit eccentric, but you choose to appreciate yourself and encourage others to always love themselves. And this is your mark in the world.

Twin Flame Synastry Maybe?

So, I don’t intend on making this post in order to decide which aspects decide a Twin Flame connection or whether or not one has met  theirs or not. But I want to share my understanding and experience.

I know there are many blogs on the internet that explain the signs and symptoms, as well as the differences between Twins, False Twins, Soulmates and Karmic Soulmates. I don’t disagree that these all exist as I’ve had my experience with one/some of each. Some believe that anyone can have “many Twin Flames”….but that wouldn’t make the experiences so rare, would it? At least to me that would make the TF experience pretty common. But I cannot say whether it is or isn’t.

A couple things that I seem to notice that’s rarely talked about but seem to be a common theme in my opinion:

1. The telepathic awareness of Twin Flame relationships.
2. The Chaser Twin’s vision vs the Runner’s vision.

Everyone has each’s own purpose and destiny in our lives, which is unique to us all. So what makes the Twin Flame experience so important and rare in the first place?

From my point of view, the Twin Flames who have never met will somehow already know each other. More precisely, the chaser will be aware of the other in a ‘Someday I’ll Find You’ sort of vision, and the runner will be closer to the path of where they know they are headed in life. When these two collide is when their realities are forever altered.

In my experience, I was under 8 years old when I had a psychic experience which I cannot explain in detail as to how, but I will point out that in my Natal chart my Pallas is conjunct Neptune with a 0° orb and Neptune trine my 2nd house NN with an orb of 1-2°. My Vertex is in my 5th house square my 8th house Saturn 1-2°. My 10th house Juno trine Pallas trine Neptune all 0°. My Chiron is also square Neptune both at 29°. I had a very intense kundalini awakening which was abruptly forced down by religion by the time I was 9 up until 18. And I also experienced an IMMENSE amount of trauma in my life.

My 8th house has Sun/Venus/Saturn. My 4th house has Pluto and Nessus, and Kassandra is tightly conjunct my IC. At this age I had a vision of this particular person I would meet in this life. I was told that he would be my “best friend and we will have everything in common and do everything together.” After I had this vision, I pushed a lot of my friends away by telling them that they are my close friends, and they are some of the best friends I’ve had/I do/did have….but I can’t call anyone my “best friend” which was always followed by an apology. I have even had people so attached to me that they’d insist I consider them my best friends. Unfortunately, I was adamant about this.

In my vision, without too many specific details, I knew that I wouldn’t meet my Twin until I traveled away…until I moved far-ish from home, and that he would be of a Caucasian complexion. This has nothing to do with personal preference because I adore all races, and I have experienced relationships with Asians, Hispanics, European, African American as well as Caucasion. But I knew that my ‘best friend’ would particularly be Caucasion. I knew he would also be older than me, which he is. It’s not up to me for anyone to believe this, but if there are any of you who believe in Twin Flames then I couldn’t understand why this would get past you…

Perhaps it is the septiles in my Natal Chart. My 0° orb Sun and Venus are Trieptile my Mars. And my Sun and Venus are Septile Ceres, Mars Triseptile Ceres in Aquarius conjunct Desc 1° orb. Do you see the connection?

Now then, I will try to explain this the best I can so please bear with me….

Perhaps being a Life Path number 7 born under the Waning Crescent moon phase gives me the natural ability to feel the 7th division of the circle; Septiles. Not only have I ever had this awareness of my Twin Flame, I have always been intuitively and psychically drawn into relationships which have prepared me to be ready for my twin flame by my Sun/Venus triseptile my Mars. Some of these experiences were extremely traumatizing, and the amount of pain I was caused had hardened my heart to prepare for the separations I would experience with my Twin.

These experiences I will explain in short: I was a victim of long term sexual abuse in my childhood. And when I went into the dating realm, I also experienced a lot of forced sexual abuse. In two relationships I was forced into having sex with other men (at the age of 14) just so that I would become “better” only to be left for someone else simply because she was “cuter”. In the other relationship, closer to the age of 18, I was forced into a polygamous relationship while with a man after we became homeless when his grandmother passed away. This man is 8 years older than me. He involved me in a relationship with his high school lover which both used spiritual abuse to traumatize me and by my captive I was literally under a spell, if any of you can understand what spiritual abuse really is. He also forced me to get pregnant which failed several times as his excuse to rely on money from the government.

Between these, when I was 15, I dated someone for a month, when he was unexpectedly in a car accident that wiped his memories of me and killed his mother. He was in a coma for 3 days. I waited for him, but his memories didn’t return soon enough before he met someone else. His father turned into an alcoholic who beat him and eventually he left the country.

When I was 15-16 I fell for a man whom I will never forget, whose love I feel will always be the closest to the love I have for my TF even though this particular person caused me the most heart break in a relationship. We had an immediate connection. His Moon is in the same sign and degree as my TF. This man I loved for 4 months, he was an only son of three in a traditional Asian family. His mother was very passive but loving and his father an abusive alcoholic. After 4 months into that relationship, I was aggressively and verbally pushed away with no explanation, and in my heart and soul I knew something was wrong. He was so mean to me and hurt me so deeply that after a week I decided to let go….

Months later, I came to find out that he pushed me away because he was diagnosed with brain cancer that he didn’t want me to know about because it would have crushed me. A while after he had been cured, I was currently planning to abandon a short term relationship with someone who was always down talking me and my personal values and beliefs. Refusing to be on my side about anything. And the guy I mentioned before was ready to leave his obsessive and abusive relationship as well. The connection was still there and strong and we fell in love all over again. Long story short, his ex became obsessed and involved again, by forcing herself into his accounts, texting him, sending him nudes, and he was under so much stress at home tha it got to him. During Chinese New Years, his father was drunk and tried to hurt his mom which he got in the way to protect him, which sent my ex to the hospitsl with a bloody head and brain damage which shortened his life span to his 50s due to the glass bottle to his head.

He was so severely depressed and his ex so heartless and determined to win him back, that eventually he told me that he wanted to be with her and they stayed together another 2 years. It tore me in so many ways I can barely say I’ve completely healed from this wound.

I will skip to more recently. After I managed to escape the abusive polygamous relationship, I was sheltered into a permanent living Women’s Home. A while being here, I met a man whom I had no intentions on falling for, but this was the very first time in my life I had ever met someone who showed me so much compassion in my life. He cared about me from the inside out with no judgement and was completely enamoured with me and my imperfections. It was surreal. And his lifestyle and connection with other people led me to believe that he was an Incarnated Angel. His Natal Chart shows signs of this too. One day he planned to go for a camping trip for a week, but long story short there was an accident that left him in a coma for 4 months, and he never recovered and he died. The day of his accident before I knew(which I didn’t learn until a month later) I partially fainted and nearly lost consciousness, and my heart pounded against my chest out of the blue on my way to the restroom. A telepathic response.

I am 20 years old now and have only explained a glimpse of my experiences, but in short I have experienced betrayal, judgement, loss, and so much more. My heart is lucky to still be beating today.

One month after this Angel passed away was when I met my Twin Flame. It was such a scary thing for me to believe that after all the bullshit it seemed the universe had put me through after giving me a Vision as a child, that why would I suddenly deserve to have met him??

It’s hard for me to remember the beginning of my relationship with my Twin. But like you’d expect, it was a combination of Magic and Terror, the universe being birthed and sucked into a black hole, back and forth.

The break ups were intense, he pretended to be an asshole half of the time. Pushing me away the same way that I was pushed away by the man who had cancer. I knew my Twin was running. And I lost count as to how many times we parted before we mended the bond.

It took me so much passion and determination to get through to him…but I persisted. And I assure you it was worth it.

In the end, the reality is that, my Twin had also experienced the same amount of heart break in all his life which is personal to him and I won’t be sharing this information. However, neither of us knew that love could exist unconditionally until we met each other and it was utterly terrified. “I’ve never been this in love before…” he’d say.

Or “I just don’t want a relationship ever.” 

But after so much push and pull….we both decided that we accept that we love each other fully and unconditionally. Believe what you will… I’m aware that some of this may sound like a made up, unrealistic fairytale. But I don’t see why Twin Flames would exist otherwise. Not in a ‘Happily Ever After’ manner, but in a ‘Happiness Exists After All.’

So I will go over the aspects between Twin and I in Synastry and Davision which I believe points so our Synastric connections. And then lastly I will explain the Visions that we share.

Our Synastry:

• ​My Twin Flame’s Isis is biquintile my Osiris, and my Isis is biquintile his Osiris, double whammy…
• My Sun sextile his Moon/Venus/Mars/Saturn
• His Sun conjunct my Moon
• His Venus biquintile my Mars
• His Pluto biquintile my Sun/Venus
• My Pluto quintile his Moon
• My Isis conjunct his Pluto and my Osiris conjunct his Ascendent.
• My Juno biquintile his NN and his NN is exactly conjunct my Vertex in the 5th house. My NN is in his 9th house.
• My Juno sextile his Vertex.
• His Jupiter trine my Vertex.
• His Juno conjunct my Vesta and Eros.
• My Union conjunct his Moon, Venus, and Saturn(My Destinn is opposite these)
• My Vertex conjunct his Part of Fortune, quintile his Eros, trine his Psyche.
• His Union sextile my Saturn, conjunct my Uranus, semi-sextile my Vertex.
• His Destinn trine my Neptune, oppostie my Pluto and trine my NN
• His Destinn biquintile my Vertex.
• His Destin conjunct my Juno, trine my Pallas.
• His Moon/Venus/Mars/Saturn in my 6th/7th house conjunct my Jupiter.
• His Uranus/Neptune is in my 5th house square my Sun/Venus/Saturn.
• My Saturn square his NN.
• My Valentine sextile his Neptune, trine his Pluto, quintile his NN, opposite his Vesta, conjunct his Eros.
• His Valentine opposite my Mars, conjunct my Eros/Vesta.

In our Davison chart:

• Mercury square Uranus/Neptune
• Venus and Jupiter conjunct NN
• Venus quintile Uranus/Neptune 9th house
• Uranus/Neptune square Vertex
• Moon trine Vesta/Juno
• Moon biquintile Eros
• Venus conjunct Juno, trine Vesta.
• Union conjunct Sun
• Destinn square Sun
• Valentine conjunct Sun
• Uranus Neptune trine Ascendant
• Pluto and NN conjunct Descendant
• Sun and Chiron in 5th house
• Chiron conjunct Sun, square Uranus/Neptune.
• Mars trine NN
• Venus square MC/IC
• Sun septile NN
• Venus/Juno septile Chiron

I believe in Septiles. There’s no reason for these to be excluded if you want to have an awareness of the Twin Flame telepathic connections as well even before meeting.

Quintiles are JUST as important. If you study the energies of these numbers and aspects, the symbolism etc, then there will be clarifications towards psychic awareness and soulmate connections.

As I may have skipped over, it is true and confirmed that Twin and I have nearly everything in common (of course and just as many oppositions), and we do everything together.

His 2nd house Aquarius stellium is in my 6th house conjunct my 7th house. My 8th house Aries stellium is in his 4th house conjunct his IC almost exact. His 3rd house Sun is conjunct my 7th house Moon.

Namely, here are a few things we share in common: His father is 7 years older than his mother, my father is 7 years older than my mother. He and I are both on the Autism spectrum, high functioning. He and I have almost the same tastes in almost everything we eat including foods that most people disagree with us on. There are many synchronicities which aren’t coming to mind at this time, but the first several months we were constantly and continuously finishing each other’s sentences and thinking the same things simultaneously, which is a never ending phenomenon to this day which we laugh about. We have our differences and disagreements of course….our relationship is nothing perfect, we have our conflicts which balance our relationship.

Now, my Twin and I have always had a love for Humanity and a drive to make peace and take an Authoritative position of some kind when we were in the right time to take action. My Twin has studied Politics since he was a teenager and his insights are incredible. He has the intuition of a clairvoyant as well which he has predicted several occurences in recent history, or even something as simple as the genders of under 20 pregnant women before the fetuses were able to have a gender prediction. And he has been right every time.

My vision has always been that we will travel the world together and make major differences in the world. And I believe this is the purpose and power of Twin Flame UNIONS. All soulmate relationships wake us up and open our minds. But the purpose of Twin Flame relationships IS to establish true unconditional love and to project this energy into the world.

If you believe you have met your Twin Flame, spend time in meditation to identify what purpose you share together in which your unconditional love will be spread in the world in some way or form.

Controversial response to Lewis and Tolkien Christianity Argument

I read this whole story. And I just have a question in your own opinion….why do we call God “He” when it could very well be “She” or even “They”? If humans are creators after being created by THE creator, which is all considered to be both male and female, dog and cat, plant and land, sunlight and darkness, then where in what point in time did the creator take on a specific gender or body when typically this supernatural creator of sorts is one of everything? It is misleading to explain to the world that God and the creator are a male Authority figure of this seemingly cosmic order. This invisible creator must not have a name or face or any physical body of any kind to be everything and nothing simultaneously. Maybe this idea that it does, by naming this creator anything more than energy is misleading to all of the believers AND nonbelievers of religion. Because by giving this some kind of name and face will make the average human immediately picture something similar to man with similar intentions, rather than the equivalent intentions of all that exists: the blood stream in our bodies, the darkness that covers the depths of the ocean, the gas and ice which keeps Neptune perfectly whole, the leaves that grow on trees only to fall and be grown again, the particles that make up the periodic table, gold and crysyals, the separation of air and water etc. Because by excluding all as we describe the somehow benevolent power is making the argument that there is ONLY one way, when in fact it is proven that there is not and all ways are limitness. Christianity is limited as to perception. The belief system entirely is misleading because immediately it triggers the need to see one straight path rather than an entire system that breaks off into so many directions that it’s impossible to meet the ends. Mankind want to find these ends and meet them in order to have a reason to close off the capacity for which we’re able to comprehend.

This is my opinion, however.

True Lilith in Virgo

Lilith doesn’t get much credit here like most other signs. She’s expected to mostly be victimized and have no sex drive when this isn’t always true. The sign of Virgo is often underrated regardless. She is intellectual, an earth sign, quiet and innocent in her voice. But she is not usually a virgin, nor is she always grossed out about “gross” things.

Lilith in Virgo is sapiosexual to begin with. When it comes to sex, this Lilith will not immediately strip her clothes for someone or come out with how bad she wants it. Instead, this little server will make the other person want it much more first. Lilith in Virgo is intense when she makes eye contact with someone. It’s not like Lilith in Scorpio looking directly into their soul, not that Lilith in Virgo can’t, but this Lilith looks directly into the mind and knows exactly what they want.

Picture Lilith with someone she’s interested in, standing behind them, running her hands down their shoulders and chest whispering all the things that she knows are going through the other person’s head, saying, “I know this is what you want. Isn’t it?”

Lilith in Virgo isn’t much of a show off of her beauty and sexuality, sort of like Libra or Scorpio might be. Lilith in Virgo creates more of a mystery in a way that you want to guess their age but don’t want to be wrong because they look way younger and more innocent than they really are. If a person gets the opportunity to be alone with this Lilith and to let her reveal herself, she can become everything you ever dreamed. This is because Lilith in Virgo is not necessarily lustful, if at all. She wants to rock your world in everyway that you want because making others feel good and happy is just what Virgos do best.

Lilith in Virgo is an earth sign who cherishes her body unlike any other, and she raises an eyebrow to those who find it necessary to reveal so much as simply as walking down the street where others can see. Lilith in Virgo wants someone who appreciates her desire to savor majority of her most intimate features so that the person who is lucky enough to marry her gets it all that no one else was able to experience. She is extremely surprising when revealed behind the curtains.

Outside of the realm of sex and intimacy, Lilith in Virgo is very VERY tech savvy, innovative and has intellectual ability that creates ingenious. Yet she would rather not show this power very freely as early in life there may have been situations that made her realize that she was being unappreciated for her ideas, and slowly represses them or keeps them buried within herself. If harmoniously aspected, she was probably the one in school who finished homework early and was close to a straight A student. She is highly resourceful and can gather information metaphorically as quickly as consuming water. Growing up though, she probably starts to deny her intellectual smarts in Math, Science and English because she feels that it is intimidating to others for having such outstanding abilities in those areas.

When looking deeper into a person with Lilith in Virgo, there is usually something that the person has always had a deep, never ending passion for studying and analyzing to the core of it’s core. One person I know with this placement has studied cars of all kinds since she was in grade school. She knows them inside out by brand, type, parts, you name it, she has Lilith in the 6th house. Another person I once knew with this placement, her Lilith in the 11th house trine 7th house Venus, knew exactly the career she wanted to pursue and since grade school she was already preparing herself, gathering everything needed to be ready when the time came for her to attend college and she followed through. Lastly, my own Lilith in Virgo is extremely adept at learning foreign languages quicker than my own Native language. My Mercury is located in the 9th house. And because my Lilith is in the 2nd house I’m also very gifted at singing and have been addicted to using my singing voice for as long as I can remember.

Neptune in 6th House

You may be someone who is sensitive to the outside world and everyday activities can be very overwhelming for you if you’re not given the time to ‘meditate’ in some way to mentally and emotionally prepare yourself. You may have a love for swimming, being in water makes you feel emotionally stable, floating above the waves makes you feel grounded, and floating under the surface makes you feel secure. If you’re not much of a swimmer, then you probably have a natural admiration for rainy days, and in fact these are the days which probably make you feel more energized than sad. You might prefer to drive and run errands in the rain, or simply go for walks. People may assume that your head is in the clouds so often that you never know what’s going on around you on a daily basis. It is true that you may love to daydream, but you’re not delusional. Instead, you are highly sensitive, and you need a gentle approach from the things around you in life otherwise you may struggle to be present without having anxiety and stress/panic. Too much noise is overwhelming, too much activity can be stressful. When it comes to work, chores, responsibilities, you may be prone to freaking out when there is someone constantly on your tail about it. You feel insignificant when someone reminds you to be productive, because you already are, but you need to be in a quiet and simple environment to not feel overwhelmed. But you also have a hard time letting this be known to others because they may tend to believe that you’re weak for having such a preference.